In reply to @original_ngv · Sep 9, 2026Please fail more in life. In college I lost 41 hackathons, failed 15 interviews and my startup was an epic flop.
During that time I pitched to VPs at Rakuten, scientists from NTRO, engineers from Microsoft and Google and even the government.
And today I work out of New York City with one of the finest CEOs in the world on AI projects that are changing people's lives every day.
I learnt more from my losses than my wins. My failures have given me more than my wins ever have.
So please everyone I beg of you. Fail more often. The view at the top comes from falling a lot of times and getting back up.
Love the specificity of the list. And yes, I learn more from losses than wins too. I've even proactively set myself up to fail just to learn faster.
The part I'd add: at some point it has to be more than just failing. You have to fail well, which really means you had to learn to learn first.
And that usually rests on some kind of post-failure safety net. Not necessarily rich parents. Mine was a curiosity safety net: lower middle class, but I have always loved learning early and kept getting food pellets from the universe for it. That's what made failing survivable for me.
So my ask to you is: looking back at those 41 hackathons and 15 interviews, what were your hidden enablers? Could be socioeconomic, could be intellectual, could be a person. Would love the nuance, because I think that's the part people can't see from the outside.




